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The Midlife Chrysalis

Chip Conley
The Midlife Chrysalis
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  • The Midlife Chrysalis

    Why We Spend Years Chasing Things We Don't Really Want | Alain de Botton

    26.06.2026 | 47 min.
    You followed the rules, built a successful career, and checked the boxes you thought would make you happy. So why does something still feel missing?

    In this powerful conversation, bestselling author, philosopher, psychotherapist, and founder of The School of Life, Alain de Botton joins Chip Conley to explore what midlife teaches us about happiness, relationships, purpose, and becoming more fully ourselves.

    In this episode, you'll learn:
    Why status, success, and achievement often fail to deliver lasting fulfillment
    How heartbreak, loneliness, and setbacks can become sources of wisdom
    Why friendship becomes more valuable as we get older
    The hidden reason so many relationships struggle and what better love requires
    Why self-knowledge is the foundation of a meaningful life

    Filled with insight, honesty, and practical wisdom, this conversation offers a refreshing perspective on aging, growth, and what truly matters.

    Watch now and discover why midlife may not be a crisis at all. It may be the beginning of your most authentic chapter.

    Timestamps:
    (02:00) Meet Alain de Botton
    (03:25) Philosophy vs Psychotherapy
    (05:59) The Origin of The School of Life
    (07:42) Knowledge vs Wisdom
    (11:33) Status Anxiety Explained
    (14:48) Why Midlife Changes Us
    (17:12) What Gets Better After 50
    (19:10) Friendship and Heartbreak
    (21:23) Modern Love and Relationships
    (24:52) The Art of Travel
    (27:14) Travel as Self-Discovery
    (30:15) Places That Feed the Soul
    (31:24) Childhood and Curiosity
    (33:46) Solving Our Parents' Problems
    (34:35) Becoming a Psychotherapist at 50
    (37:33) A Wisdom Bumper Sticker
    (40:40) Know Yourself
    (41:16) Learning New Things Later in Life
    (43:17) Final Thoughts

    Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/

    #Midlife #PersonalGrowth #SelfKnowledge #Happiness #SuccessMindset #LifePurpose #EmotionalIntelligence #Wisdom #MeaningOfLife #StatusAnxiety #Relationships #Psychology #TheSchoolOfLife #AlainDeBotton #MidlifeCrisis
  • The Midlife Chrysalis

    The Real Problem Isn't Aging. It's Resisting It.

    24.06.2026 | 19 min.
    What if the biggest challenge of aging isn't getting older, but learning to stop fighting it?

    In this Wisdom Wednesday, Chip and Derek explore one of the most important lessons of midlife: learning to work with your body instead of fighting it.

    Some of Chip's key insights include:
    Why the body often signals what we need long before we pay attention
    How slowing down helps us reconnect with our emotions and ourselves
    What research reveals about the surprising benefits of aging
    Why resisting aging creates more suffering than aging itself
    How gratitude can shift our focus from what we've lost to what we still have

    This is a thoughtful conversation about aging, acceptance, and finding wisdom in life's changing seasons.

    Watch now and discover what your body has been trying to tell you all along.

    Timestamps:
    (05:41) Welcome Back to Wisdom Wednesday
    (07:50) Noticing Physical Changes With Age
    (10:22) Learning to Listen to Your Body
    (11:00) Aging Beyond Physical Appearance
    (13:05) Why Your Body Deserves Care
    (15:20) Aging, Appearance, and Self-Worth
    (17:46) Botox, Beauty, and Growing Older
    (19:23) The Power of Slowing Down
    (22:30) Weekly Experiment for Body Gratitude
    (24:06) Mindset and Healthy Aging
    (24:45) What Gets Better as We Age
    (25:19) Final Thoughts and Closing

    Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/

    #MidlifeChrysalis #HealthyAging #AgingWell #Midlife #PersonalGrowth #Longevity #EmotionalWellbeing #SelfAwareness #MindsetMatters #ListenToYourBody #MidlifeTransformation #AgingGracefully #WellnessJourney #LifeAfter50 #ChipConley
  • The Midlife Chrysalis

    Science Says Aging Can Make You Happier | Laura Carstensen

    22.06.2026 | 48 min.
    The science of aging reveals a surprising truth: many people become happier as they get older.

    In this episode of Midlife Chrysalis, Chip Conley sits down with Laura Carstensen, psychologist, longevity expert, and founder of the Stanford Center on Longevity, to explore the science of aging, happiness, and living longer.

    Key insights from this conversation:
    Why older adults are often happier than younger people
    How aging changes the brain and increases our focus on positive experiences
    Why the search for immortality may actually make life less meaningful
    How longer lifespans are reshaping work, retirement, and society
    Why many of today's social norms were designed for lives much shorter than our own

    This conversation offers a fresh perspective on aging, purpose, happiness, and what it means to thrive in a longer life.

    Watch now.

    Timestamps:
    (03:25) Laura’s Life-Changing Accident at 21
    (07:01) Recovery and Lessons from Older Women
    (12:17) The Theory of Socio-Emotional Selectivity
    (18:21) Why Time Gives Life Meaning
    (19:30) The Positivity Effect and Aging
    (24:53) The Stanford Center on Longevity
    (25:58) The New Map of Life
    (33:21) Building a Society for Longer Lives
    (34:07) Financial Security in a 100-Year Life
    (36:57) Rethinking Work and Retirement
    (38:07) Health Span vs Life Span
    (39:55) Will People Live Much Longer?
    (42:22) Laura’s Life Philosophy
    (43:36) Don’t Forget to Look at the Sky
    (45:19) Final Thoughts on Aging and Longevity

    Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/

    #LauraCarstensen #Aging #HealthyAging #Longevity #Happiness #Midlife #PositiveAging #SuccessfulAging #Psychology #PersonalGrowth #LifePurpose #StanfordLongevity #EmotionalWellbeing #OlderAndWiser #MidlifeChrysalis
  • The Midlife Chrysalis

    Why So Many of Us Feel Like We Don't Belong | Pádraig Ó Tuama

    19.06.2026 | 52 min.
    What does it mean to belong, to yourself, to others, and to a life that's constantly changing?

    In this powerful conversation, Chip Conley sits down with Irish poet, theologian, and conflict mediator Padraig O Tuama to explore belonging, grief, identity, faith, and the wisdom that comes with midlife.

    You'll learn:
    Why belonging isn't always what we think it is
    How poetry helps us navigate loss and uncertainty
    Padraig's journey through religion, sexuality, and reparative therapy
    What turning 40 taught him about mortality and meaning
    Why love may be life's most important practice

    Filled with beautiful poetry, profound insights, and heartfelt stories, this episode is a reminder that even in life's most difficult seasons, you belong here.

    Watch now and let us know: What line or insight stayed with you most?

    Timestamps:
    (02:30) Poetry as Cultural Memory
    (05:19) The Purpose of Poetry
    (06:41) When Is a Poem Finished?
    (07:33) Becoming a Poet
    (10:13) Faith, Sexuality, and Identity
    (12:37) Exorcisms and Reparative Therapy
    (19:16) Belonging and Conflict
    (22:47) How to Be Alone
    (25:12) Grief, Breathing, and Death
    (30:16) Sleeping in His Mother's Bed
    (33:19) Midlife and the Shock of Turning 40
    (36:42) Birthday Prayer
    (39:32) Midlife Awakening and Change
    (41:36) The Facts of Life
    (45:11) Love, Death, and Wisdom
    (47:02) Desire, Lack, and Meaning
    (48:13) Final Reflections and Closing

    Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/

    #Belonging #Authenticity #Midlife #Poetry #PadraigOTuama #SelfDiscovery #Identity #PersonalGrowth #Grief #LifeLessons #EmotionalHealing #TruthTelling #Purpose #HumanConnection #Wisdom
  • The Midlife Chrysalis

    When Success Isn't Enough: Finding Purpose in Midlife

    17.06.2026 | 27 min.
    Many successful people reach midlife with a surprising question: What's next?

    In this episode of Wisdom Wednesday, Chip Conley shares what he's learning from leading the Purpose Fellowship, a year-long program helping people redefine purpose beyond career, achievement, and old identities.

    Chip explores why so many high achievers struggle to find meaning after success, how hidden patterns influence our choices, and why purpose is often much broader than we realize.

    In this conversation, you'll learn:
    Why purpose is not just one thing for your entire life
    How career identity can keep people stuck
    The role of the "shadow" in shaping behavior and decisions
    Why the shift from ego to soul becomes important in midlife
    Four practical ways to reconnect with meaning and fulfillment

    If you're navigating a life transition, questioning your direction, or looking for a deeper sense of purpose, this episode offers valuable insights and practical wisdom.

    Listen now and start exploring what your next chapter could look like.

    Timestamps:00:00 Introduction – The Midlife Chrysalis & Purpose
    00:30 Welcome with Chip Conley and Derek Gehl
    01:04 Chip's health update and prostate cancer treatment
    02:05 MEA Homecoming, Richard Rohr workshop, and finding purpose
    03:39 Why purpose matters and common misconceptions
    05:17 Big P vs. Small P Purpose
    06:46 The origin of the Purpose Fellowship
    08:22 Why successful people struggle to find what's next
    09:49 Building a Portfolio of Purpose
    10:26 The Power 24 Assessment Tool
    11:46 The lawyer who became a pastry chef
    13:06 Who joins the Purpose Fellowship?
    14:52 Common purpose challenges in midlife
    15:46 Why achievers struggle to let go of success metrics
    16:01 The “Stylus” metaphor and finding new music in life
    17:02 Self-reflection, identity, and the Hero’s Journey
    18:06 Understanding your shadow self
    19:00 The danger of jumping onto a new treadmill
    20:30 Letting go of old identities
    22:41 The most overlooked area: Spiritual development
    23:35 Moving from ego to soul in midlife
    24:01 Four pathways to discovering purpose
    25:00 Chip's current purpose experiments and passions
    25:34 Family, fatherhood, and what matters most
    26:07 Chip's new Substack and Wisdom Well26:33 Final thoughts and outro

    Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/

    #MidlifeChrysalis #MidlifePurpose #FindYourPurpose #MidlifeTransition #PersonalGrowth #LifeAfterSuccess #MeaningfulLife #PurposeDrivenLife #SecondHalfOfLife #MidlifeTransformation #SelfDiscovery #LifePurpose #PersonalDevelopment #ChipConley #MidlifeJourney
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Om The Midlife Chrysalis
The Midlife Chrysalis is a one-hour podcast hosted by Chip Conley, bestselling author of Learning to Love Midlife and founder of MEA (Modern Elder Academy). Chip and his high-profile guests – including Maria Shriver, Hoda Kotb, Elizabeth Gilbert, Michael Franti, and more – dive into raw, vulnerable conversations about the profound transitions they’ve experienced in midlife. Listeners get a rare look at how even the most successful individuals have to navigate life’s pivotal changes – and gain practical wisdom they can apply in their own lives for a more fulfilling and purposeful next chapter.
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