Choosing Chaos: Solo Motherhood by Choice

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Nathalie thought she was living the life she was supposed to want—married, settled, and planning for motherhood. But a life-changing moment at an OB appointment shifted everything.
What followed was a journey of healing, self-discovery, and redefining what truly felt aligned. Nathalie made the difficult choice to leave behind what no longer served her, explored new paths, and ultimately chose to pursue motherhood on her own terms through surrogacy.
This episode explores the courage it takes to question the path you’re on—and the strength it takes to choose a different one.
Connect with Nathalie:
📸@nathaliefilmon
💼https://www.linkedin.com/in/nathalie-filmon/
Resources Mentioned:
Fertility Clinic of Las Vegas: https://fertilitycenterlv.com/
Sperm Bank of California: https://www.thespermbankofca.org/
Get Nathalie’s Book:
Amazon (English): https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FB51LCSJ
Amazon (French): https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FNJT27MH

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Jessica’s path to motherhood took an unexpected turn when life—and timing—presented challenges she couldn’t ignore. In this episode, she shares how changing circumstances led her to make a bold, unconventional choice: saying “I do” to an old friend who stepped up in a way she never could have planned.
What followed was a journey filled with uncertainty, resilience, and the complexities of building a life together during a global pandemic—learning how to show up as friends, roommates, and emotional support for one another while holding onto a shared goal.
After delays and detours, Jessica’s dream finally came to life—not once, but twice. This is a story about redefining what family can look like, embracing the unexpected, and choosing courage in the face of it all.
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In this episode, we sit down with Brittinie Tran from Hot Mess Express, a women-led nonprofit creating a judgment-free space for women navigating life’s overwhelming moments.
Hot Mess Express is built on the belief that no one has to go through hard seasons alone—whether that means help with cleaning and organizing or simply having a compassionate community show up when it matters most.
Tune in to hear Brittinie share the heart behind the mission, the impact they’re making, and how you can get involved.
Learn more:
Website: www.hotmessexpress.co
Instagram: @hotmessexpress.nonprofit
Facebook: Hot Mess Express Rescue NonProfit
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Nicole’s journey to motherhood didn’t follow a typical path. Early menopause and unexpected challenges didn’t stop her from defining her own path.
In this episode, we explore embryo donation, family surprises, and the importance of telling children their stories. Nicole also shares how she now supports women pursuing single motherhood by choice, offering guidance and encouragement along the way.
Sometimes the path we didn’t originally plan becomes the one that leads us exactly where we’re meant to be.
Connect with Nicole: 
Tiktok: @smbc_consultant
Instagram: @singlemombychoiceconsultant

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Beth opens up about burnout in the tech industry and the moment her inner voice spoke up on a drive, leading her to choose single motherhood by choice. She shares what it’s like raising her daughter in some of the biggest tech cities, how she built her support village, and the leap they took to live abroad for a bigger adventure—balancing world schooling with launching her own company.
This conversation is a high-level look at trusting your instincts, redefining success, and embracing life on your own terms.
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📸 Instagram: choosing_chaos_smbc
🎵 TikTok: @choosingchaossmbc
📧 Email: [email protected]

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