Choosing Chaos: Solo Motherhood by Choice

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In this episode of Choosing Chaos, we’re joined by Caroline, owner of Pathfinder Birth Works, for an honest and empowering conversation about the role of a doula in pregnancy, birth, and postpartum.
Caroline shares how doulas provide steady support through one of the most transformative seasons in a woman’s life—offering evidence-based information, emotional reassurance, physical comfort measures, and guidance when it matters most. We talk about what it really means for a mom to advocate for herself, how having the right support in the room can shape the birth experience, and why postpartum care is just as important as the delivery itself.
Whether you’re preparing for your first baby or adding to your family, this episode sheds light on how personalized, continuous support can benefit both mom and baby—and why no one should have to navigate this chapter alone.
Learn more about Pathfinder Birth Works and connect with Caroline here:
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In this episode of Choosing Chaos, we sit down with Jess to talk about what it really looks like to pursue single motherhood by choice later in life.
Jess froze her eggs in her younger years, believing she was preserving an option for the future. But when she ultimately decided to conceive in her 40s, she learned those eggs were no longer usable — and she had to pivot. What followed were multiple rounds of IVF, each carrying emotional weight, physical demands, and significant financial considerations.
We also explore an important and often overlooked part of the fertility conversation: when transfers fail, it’s not always about the clinic, the protocol, or donor compatibility. Sometimes there are deeper-rooted health factors at play. Jess shares why exploring underlying issues — including reproductive immunology — and advocating for comprehensive testing may help uncover the “why” so many women are searching for.
The journey to motherhood isn’t always straightforward, and freezing your eggs isn’t a guarantee. While it can be helpful, embryo freezing often shows stronger success rates. This conversation is about informed choices, self-advocacy, resilience, and building the family you envision — even when the path isn’t linear.
Jess shares education and support for women considering this path on TikTok at @jessnuremberg.
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Michelle joins us to share the story behind her bold pivot to single motherhood by choice. After choosing to leave a relationship impacted by addiction, she found herself redefining the vision she once had for starting a family. Instead of waiting for the “right” circumstances, Michelle leaned into community, trusted her intuition, and decided to move forward on her own terms — turning what could have been a sidestep into a meaningful journey.
We dive into loving someone through addiction, the strength it takes to let go, and the courage to choose the life you truly want. It’s a conversation that’s honest, uplifting, and beautifully human.
Michelle is also the author of Party in a Petri Dish, a heart-warming children’s book in which Bailey explains how Mommy wanted a baby so much she took a leap of science and love to make it happen — celebrating the beauty of unique family stories along the way. 
Grab a copy today: Party in a Petri Dish
Addiction is a deeply sensitive and complex topic. If you or someone you love is struggling with substance use, support is available. In the U.S., you can call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline for immediate support. You can also contact the SAMHSA National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP (4357) for free, confidential treatment referral and information services. If you’re outside the U.S., please consult your local health services for substance use and recovery resources in your area.
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We’re sharing a story that beautifully expands what love and family can look like.
In this episode, Jackie — a single mom by choice — opens up about her path to motherhood, from beginning her journey with a known donor to ultimately choosing a different direction. She shares the courage it took to pivot, the joy of welcoming her daughter, and the intentional ways she’s built connection along the way — including creating a sibling community and surrounding herself with a strong village of other single moms by choice.
At its heart, this conversation is about generosity, support, and the powerful ripple effect of embryo donation. It’s a story of love multiplied — and a reminder that family can be built in the most thoughtful, expansive ways. 💛
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On this episode of Choosing Chaos, I’m chatting with Masha, a mom of two sweet daughters, about her journey into motherhood — the joys, the challenges, and all the unexpected ways love and family show up along the way. 💛
We also talk about the ways she’s been able to share the gift of motherhood with another single mom by choice, and how building your village sometimes looks different than you expect.
For more info on embryo donation and resources for single parents by choice, check out Embryo Connections.
This episode is full of warmth, honesty, and inspiration — perfect for anyone navigating motherhood, family, or just life’s beautiful chaos.
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