Be Inspired Mama

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If you’ve ever felt lonely even while surrounded by people, busy but disconnected, or like you’ve somehow lost your spark along the way — this episode is for you.
In this conversation, I sit down with Aubry Marie — a movement teacher, breathwork facilitator, artist, and mama whose work and presence have deeply shaped my own journey back into my body and back into myself. What started as a handstand workshop turned into a friendship rooted in vulnerability, play, and showing up scared.
Together, we talk about female friendship, community, identity, and what it really takes to feel alive again as a woman. We explore why adult friendships can feel awkward and hard to build, why so many women quietly play small, and how reclaiming the parts of yourself you’ve set aside can open the door to deeper connection — with others and with yourself.
This episode is about finding your people and remembering who you are in the process.
In this episode, we cover:
▶︎ Why adult female friendship feels lonely and harder than we admit
▶︎ The subtle ways women lose their spark over time
▶︎ Why community doesn’t just “happen” — and how it’s actually built
▶︎ How vulnerability creates real connection between women
▶︎ The role movement and embodiment play in reconnecting to yourself
▶︎ Motherhood, identity shifts, and belonging
▶︎ Why being seen can feel scarier than being alone — and why it matters
▶︎ How to stop playing small and start showing up as who you really are
Aubry Marie is a movement teacher, breathwork facilitator, artist, and mama based in Miami. She’s a three-time American Ninja Warrior competitor, rock climber, yoga instructor, and the first Alo Yoga billboard model. Her work centers on helping people reconnect with their bodies, confidence, and inner spark through movement, play, and embodiment.
She’s also the creator of I (love) you, a message rooted in self-love, presence, and connection that has grown into a community movement and wearable art.
Resources:
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▶︎ Connect with Aubry Marie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aubrymarie 
▶︎ Aubry’s I (love) you merch: https://aubrymarie.com/
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If you feel anxious, overwhelmed, emotionally reactive, or numb — even while doing all the “right” things — your nervous system and hormones may be driving the cycle, not your mindset or willpower.
In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Sonya Jensen, a naturopathic physician and women’s health expert, to explore why so many women feel stuck in chronic stress, why self-care isn’t working, and how hormonal shifts and nervous system regulation shape how safe, calm, or on edge you feel in your body.
We talk about why anxiety, burnout, and emotional overwhelm aren’t personal failures, how survival mode becomes a default state, and what actually helps your body return to calm and regulation. This conversation focuses on real life — small pauses, awareness, and simple nervous system tools you can use throughout the day.
If you’ve been wondering why your body won’t relax, why stress feels constant, or why you feel “off” without a clear reason, this episode will help you understand what’s happening underneath — and how to work with your body instead of pushing against it.
In this episode, we cover:
Why anxiety and overwhelm are nervous system patterns, not flaws
How hormones affect stress, mood, and emotional safety
Why many women stay stuck in fight-or-flight or shutdown
Why productivity-based self-care doesn’t lead to nervous system regulation
Simple, everyday ways to support your nervous system

Resources:
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If you feel constantly overwhelmed, anxious, emotionally numb, or stuck in survival mode, your nervous system may be driving the cycle — not your mindset, motivation, or willpower.
In this episode, we dive into the vagus nerve, the primary nerve responsible for regulating stress, calm, emotional safety, digestion, and connection. When the vagus nerve isn’t supported, the body stays locked in fight-or-flight or shutdown, no matter how much self-care you try to add on.
This conversation breaks down why modern women feel chronically stressed and exhausted, why quick fixes don’t last, and how to work with your nervous system instead of overriding it. You’ll learn how simple, science-backed practices can shift your body out of survival mode and back into calm, clarity, and connection — in real life, not just on retreat.
I also share my personal experience with burnout: doing “all the right things” while still feeling reactive, disconnected, and depleted. What finally changed everything wasn’t more discipline — it was learning how to regulate my nervous system from the inside, in small moments throughout the day.
In this episode, we cover:
▶︎ What the vagus nerve is and why it controls stress, calm, and emotional regulation
▶︎ The difference between fight-or-flight, shutdown, and safety states
▶︎ Why chronic stress isn’t a mindset problem — it’s a nervous system pattern
▶︎ How posture, breath, and focus directly affect vagal tone
▶︎ The “2-3-4 regulation rule”: two minutes, three times a day, for real change
▶︎ Why narrow focus and screens keep the nervous system stuck in survival mode
▶︎ How expanded gaze instantly signals safety to the brain
▶︎ Why cold exposure activates the vagus nerve
▶︎ How long exhales calm anxiety and lower stress hormones
▶︎ Why play and laughter are powerful nervous system regulators
▶︎ How small, consistent regulation reps outperform one-hour self-care routines

Modern wellness culture has taught us to chase fixes: supplements, biohacks, protocols — without ever addressing the root. But real healing doesn’t happen downstream. It happens upstream, where the nervous system, circadian rhythm, and cellular signaling quietly determine how everything else functions.
In this episode, I sit down with Nathalie Niddam, a holistic nutritionist, longevity educator, and internationally recognized expert in peptides and bioregulators. Nathalie has spent decades studying how the body heals itself when we stop overriding it — and start working with its natural intelligence instead.
Together, we explore what peptides and bioregulators actually are, how they differ, and why they’re best understood as signals, not shortcuts. We talk about the concept of “going upstream,” nervous system regulation as the foundation of health, and why no advanced intervention works without basics like light exposure, circadian rhythm, nutrition, and stress recovery in place.
This conversation is not about doing more. It’s about doing things in the right order — and learning when the body needs support versus when it needs space to recalibrate on its own.
You’ll learn:
▶︎ What peptides and bioregulators really are — and how they differ in the body
▶︎ Why bioregulators are considered epigenetic switches rather than stimulants
▶︎ The “upstream vs downstream” model of healing — and why symptoms are not the problem
▶︎ How nervous system regulation sits at the top of the health hierarchy
▶︎ Why circadian rhythm, light exposure, and melatonin influence aging, hormones, and immunity
▶︎ The role of peptides like BPC-157 and copper peptides in repair and regeneration
▶︎ Why peptides are tools — not replacements — for lifestyle foundations
▶︎ When advanced interventions help move the needle, and when they can backfire
▶︎ How to approach peptides and bioregulators safely, intelligently, and ethically
▶︎ Why healing works best when we trust the body’s design instead of constantly overriding it
Resources:
▶︎ The Connection Code by Melissa Sonners
The Connection Code Book: Reset & Realign Your Nervous System
▶︎ Follow Nathalie: Longevity Biohacker and Peptide Expert (@nathalieniddam) • Instagram profile
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Most nervous system dysregulation doesn’t come from trauma, burnout, or “doing life wrong.” It comes from small, everyday habits we repeat without realizing how deeply they affect our brain, body, and emotional state.
In this episode, I break down three common patterns that quietly keep the nervous system stuck in survival mode — even for women who are doing all the “right” things. These habits are especially common for busy women juggling work, family, and mental load, and they often show up as irritability, anxiety, brain fog, exhaustion, or snapping at the people we love most.
Rather than adding more routines or self-care to your plate, this episode focuses on simple, realistic nervous system resets you can use in real life. We explore how brainwaves, device use, stress repair, and visual focus shape regulation — and how small, consistent shifts can help you return to calm, clarity, and connection throughout the day.
What You’ll Learn
▶︎ Why starting your day on your phone pushes your brain straight into stress mode
▶︎ How theta, alpha, and beta brainwaves affect mood, focus, and emotional regulation
▶︎ Why snapping at loved ones is often a nervous system signal — not a personal failure
▶︎ Simple repair tools to reset after emotional reactions, especially with children
▶︎ How chronic narrow focus keeps the nervous system locked in survival
▶︎ What “expanded gaze” is and why it instantly signals safety to the brain
▶︎ Why short, consistent regulation reps are more effective than long self-care routines
▶︎ How to rewire your nervous system in minutes, not hours

Resources:

▶︎ The Connection Code by Melissa Sonners:
https://beehive.drmelissasonners.com/the-connection-code
▶︎ FREE Circadian Reset Resource: Circadian Rhythm Reset https://beehive.drmelissasonners.com/circadian-rhythm-reset